George Carlin - We Like War
More Self Reflections on Self...
I have ended (this time for Good - OFFICIALLY - no more bullshitting, no more nonsense crap, no more hypocricy, just full out BLOW IT UP) all relations, all communications, and wiped his entire existnece out of my memory. Such a person is no longer essential to my existence. He was too negative, too critical, to judgmental, and too proud of himself - as that was how our relationship was formed - based on personal, self-given pride. It was a relationship based solely on arguments, debates, and not once or never have we mentioned that we appreciate each other. And even if we did - it was all total bullshit. It was a fucking war between us - and now, I am walking away. I take his advice and his messages with me though - but the person - no more. What he spoke about me I will remember and comprehend, reflect upon, and improve upon - but I can no longer stand his presence in my life. He is too much of a burden for someone like me - optimistic, realistic, philosophical, emotional, intuitive, a critical thinker, and someone who seeks answers not futile petty conflicts of interests (ie, ego was always a big problem between us).
Whether or not I betrayed him or backstabbed him makes no difference to me. I may be impatient at time. I may be losing some tolerance - but to say that I have no tolerace and no respect for people in general hurts my feelings too much just as I hurt his feelings. Such a relation is void of any meaning, any hope, any love, or anything worthwhile. Too much expectations and standards makes it impossible for me to understand because there is also along with it too much denial to access truths and information or any way of how to improve let alone solve the problem by getting to the heart of it. Instead, I have given up on him - but not giving up on my search for truth and liberty...even I may have made a few mistakes a long the way. I may even have been seductive, oppressive, suppressive, and aggressive, or bossy - but that is the way I may be unconsciously acting in front of him because he just ticks me off way too much to bother - I can't handle it anymore. I want answers not hints or little clues - ANSWERS. I don't want to have to guess every little shit in a relationship - I don't mind some guessing - but seriously? Saying I am too consistent? Too predictable and ritualistic? Reading my fucking mind? Do you actuallhy believe in that shit? Fine - whatever - who cares if they are true about me? I have so many flaws that it is hard to keep track of it doesn't really matter a whole lot deal when I have to deal with him specifically.
A relationship based solely on debate, ego, arguments, and stupid preachings is useless, and as such - I am declaring my will to officially end all ties, all communication, all means of recording each other's existence. It hurts me that such a relation or former friendship have to end in such tragedy - but I tried - even if I do need to strategize and adapt better. Whatever you got to tell me - tell me nothing because I blocked you from accessing my blog even though you can see it only if you do not log into Xanga. I don't care. I don't give a fuck.
I don't even want to your friend or anything like that any more. I don't care what you think about me or trying to make me obey some of your stupid rules. I live by my own ways - independently. If you still choose to view me the way you do - then fine. I at least confessed in this entry that you may be right in some of your arguments against me. I could care less though because you are not very trusthworthy in my policy or whatever you want to call it. I have such low, simple, honest standards for a friendship - if people can't reach them then oh well, just go on with your fucking life. Luckily - I am becoming more social these days and also a bit more ticked off and enraged and fueled to do more rebellion and acts of social sabotage but I know better. I like mysteries but not too much secrecy even of what one has learnt in the past 48 hours or more - knowledge is to be shared for everyone because knowledge is what keeps us illuminated and ensures our survival most if not all the time. Ignorance may be survival but it is only survivial for so long - and it is not bliss thank God.
What if I really don't want to live by all the RULES of society? I was never really a big fan of the status quo - the limits, the boundaries, the borderlines, the censorship, the secrecy in a free and transparent society. May there, "should be limts on freedom," but I always find it uncomfortable to deal with. Whatever - it is an issue of my tolerance level again...oh well - got to work on this as always. People - Principles - Precepts - they all each need one another in order to live a decent, free life.
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Now - how does George Carlin's video relate to the old relationship that was once good... - the truth is - we were both were FUCKING with each other and unnecessarily projecting each other's penises' into each other...so, now, getting tired of it - I walk off and say - FUCK OFF...we are both stupid to even have started a friendship so many years ago. A friendship that is based on warfare (notice the oxyMORON's already?) - is not meant to last and sooner or later one of them or both will walk away and tell themselves: "I DON'T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT THE OTHER PERSON." Well, too bad - that has come true already on this day.
Officially.
Yours, love
Xinyu Hu
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